Three dates? Five dates? One date? I know I can be totally lame sometimes, but when it comes to dating and hooking up, I'm a bit more old-fashioned. Of course, everyone is entitled to a carefree romp from time to time if they so desire, but overall, I think girls should make guys work for tha booty. And this might surprise you, but that's what a lot of guys want, too.
I remember one of my friends telling me, "But..but...you're going to have to give it up soon!" regarding a guy I dated in college. (Ok, so I don't think she actually said "give it up," but I'm keeping things PG so that my mom and 13 year-old cousin aren't scared to read my blog). I don't know, I've just never had the mentality that I had to put out (yes, I said it) in order to keep a guy interested. Why? Because if he isn't happy with the goods he's getting, then he's not good enough for me--Next!
Ok, so this pic is a little random, but I thought it was cute--even though grandpa's junk is a bit more prominent than necessary. An.y.way. After my current boyfriend and I had been dating a while, he confessed that he liked the fact that I was a challenge, and if hadn't been, he might have placed me in the "girl I just want to have fun with" category instead of the "girl I truly want to get to know better" category. I'm sure there are plenty of guys--and girls--rolling their eyes at this, but I also just read a personal essay on Glamour.com that supports everything I just said--and it was written by a dude. It seems to me that guys don't even know they want a challenge...until they get one.
I'm sure there are many girls out there who could tell me stories about how they had porn star sex on the first date with their now husbands or current boyfriends. And to you, I say congrats. I don't think that is the norm, but of course, it does happen. Maybe I'm naive as hell, but this is my opinion and I'm sticking to it. Even so, don't be shy to tell me what you think, you'll never receive judgment here.
So tell me: How long should a girl wait to give up tha booty? Check out the Glamour article here and give me your thoughts on it. Guys, I better hear from you, too!