I've witnessed married women flirt with other guys, even with their husbands in the room, and they didn't even bat an eyelash. I've also had a couple experiences where a "taken" guy flirted with me to the point where I felt uncomfortable—too many kisses on my cheek, hugs and pats on my arm. I told you in this post that I get turned on when other girls flirt with my boyfriend, but if he was the one initiating the moves, I'd be pissed!
I know it's perfectly normal to be attracted to other people, and I'm not delusional enough to think that my boyfriend never gives other girls a second glance from time to time, but the world we live in should not resemble an episode from For the Love of Ray J, people! (P.S. Did anyone see the episode where Luscious gets shit for "smashing" one of Ray J's homies? It was awwwesome. Tom Green was in it too; I suggest you catch the rerun during the weekend, if that's your type of thing). I digress. So yeah, I have a few friends who are in really good, solid relationships, but occasionally get upset by their boyfriends' harmless flirting. Guys and girls: Can you weigh in on this subject? Have you ever been hurt by a situation like this? What kind of flirting do you think is going too far?
Posts
